On the list of things that I wish I could take back and/or do over:  at the wedding reception, I gave in to my impulses and very slightly rubbed cake on Rich’s lips, rather than just put it in his mouth, as any nice, polite woman would do.  As a true testament to his character, he gently placed cake into my mouth.  Revenge was not a dish he cared to partake of.  I just love him.